[meson] better propagate dependencies

The emper header LockedUnboundedQueue.hpp could depend on different libraries
according to the implementation.

To link those dependencies with everything including LockedUnboundedQueue.hpp
we propagate all emper_dependencies through emper_dep.

And using emper_dep as a dependency seems anyway better than essentially
writing down emper_dep manually each time.

emper_dep essentially is:
(link_with:emper, include_directories: emper_all_include)