[IO] overhaul SQPOLL support

Two meson options control the io_uring sqpoll feature:
* io_uring_sqpoll - enable sq polling
* io_uring_shared_poller - share the polling thread between all io_urings

Since 5.12 the IORING_SETUP_ATTACH_WQ only causes sharing of
poller threads not the work queues.
See: https://github.com/axboe/liburing/issues/349

When using SQPOLL the userspace has no good way to
know how many sqes the kernel has consumed therefore we
wait for available sqes using io_uring_sqring_wait if there
was no usable sqe.

Remove the GlobalIoContext::registerLock and register all worker
io_uring eventfd reads at the beginning of the completer function.
Also register all the worker io_uring eventfds since they never change
and it hopefully reduces overhead in the global io_uring.